Social Mobility and Multivalue System

A modern society is a heterogeneous one. Members of a society come from different culture, background and they do things in different ways, they have different point of views, they have different value systems. This society should have a multi-value system. The social groups embrace each other, support each other to build up a healthy society.

When someone can align the social value and have much more ability about it, their social status will be improved. For example, earning money is one of social values. If they earn alot, their social status is higher. Another example, management capability is one of of social values. If they can manage great affairs, they will be respected. One more concrete example, the master sinologist, Yao Zongyi, can be very good at research and art literacy and nobody can compete with him. His social status is unparalleled even though he cannot earn much. Therefore, social value drives social stratification and then develop a systematic framework for social mobility.

If multi-value system is widely recognized in a society, the education system and industries will develop accordingly. Then, multiple frameworks for social mobility can be built up. Thus, a healthy circulation of cash flow can be started among the social groups, and then the gap between rich and poor would not be worsened. Unfortunately, even though the foreign exchange reserve and GDP of Hong Kong is very high throughout the world, the gap is widening in past few years. M-society is built up. Middle class is diminished. Thus, it can deduce that cash flow is not healthy, social mobility is low, uni-value system prevails.

The social status of professional drops, the one of education drops under government funding system, the one of sportsmen drops, the one of cultural and historical researchers drops. In enterprise aspect, manufacturing diminished, technology diminished, retail diminished, tourism diminished, only financial service and real estate can have a lion's share. It pushes other to get rid of land, to develop offshore. Unless the government can pour resources in professionals, sports, culture and historical research, it is hard to change the trend.

(Chinese version)

Where is Hope?

Hope is the possibility that you want something happen in the future.

Things cannot happen without any cause, any drive and any effort.

Effort is necessary and should be towards to the goal.

If you want to work out something, please do the work.

But do not do it blindly.

Do it wisely.

Understand the environment.

Understand the rules of game.

Smell the changes and life cycle of it.

Remember! Make your goal clear.

Push yourself to the limit.

Use every bit of energy to rush to your target.

And... that is it.

Be creative

Be creative on communication.
Try role play with your wife/husband.
Be creative on celebration.
Try to watch 3 great movies or have a big big buffet.
Be creative on interaction.
Can have fun to mix hug and judo.
Be creative on position.
You can have different feeling.

Remember to smile and laugh
when create a joyful moment.

Life is

Life is a chain of enjoyment moments.
Don't save it for the last moment.
Do it at once.

Hallo! Guten morgan!

In german, "Hallo! Guten morgan!" means "Hello! Good Morning!"
Hallo means Hello.
Guten means good.
Morgan means morning.
When we come across with a friend or someone I know, we would say "Hallo!" for informal greeting. If we come across a stranger, we would say "Guten Tag!" for formal greeting.
Tag means day. Therefore, Guten Tag means good day.
How about to say "See you tomorrow" in german? "Bis morgan". Morgan here means tomorrow. Yes, it is the same word for morning. "Bis morgan" literally means "Til tomorrow".
When we say goodbye, there is a formal way and informal way. "Auf Wiedersehen!" for formal way. "Tschüs!" for informal way. Of course, we can say "Bis später!" for "See you later!". ü sounds like 淤泥的淤 in putonghua. ä sounds like e. When say Tschüs! to whom understand putonghua, don't break it into 2 separated sounds; otherwise, it sounds like foul language - 去死。

life is a personal art. marriage is an art of two persons.

Marriage is the joining of two people -

the union of two hearts.

It lives on the love

you give each other

and never grows old,

but thrives on the joy

of each new day...

Marriage is love.

May you always be blessed

in your hearts

with the wonder of your marriage.

May you always be able to talk things over,

to confide,

to laugh with each other

and enjoy life together,

to share moments

of quiet peace

when the day is done.

May you be blessed

with a lifetime of happiness.

~jill Ryynanen

Communication between sexes

It is an interesting topic. I think almost nobody can avoid communication between sexes. There may be many fantasy when you start love affair with the one. However, someone finds that it becomes a nightmare when miscommunication is encountered.

Most of us think that girls are emotion-oriented. May do something emotionally. Make a decision emotionally. And even choose a guy emotionally. However, in the bottom of their heart, relationship, stability, fun are in the top priority. Feeling is basically a measurement of relationship. They normally have some closed friends always being together. They share everything by talking. Most of them think when they talk and then stop thinking when they don't talk. Of course, they would talk to themselves. When they talk, their feeling is released. Grieve is relieved. They feel comfortable after conversation is completed. You may think they are weak. However, you would find that their problems are not yet solved after talking. They can keep on going. Therefore, if they find a good listener, they can face any problem in daily life even without solving them.

Most of boys are classified as playing-oriented. They just love to play and bear less responsibility. In fact, boys and men are looking for satisfaction. They want to fight for something, build up something, or make an achievement. They need to tackle all the problems in different levels. It is just like hunters in the Stone Age. They need the real actions to solve all real problems. Feeling and emotion is unnecessary. Contrary, girls and women need to take care babies especially when the babies cannot talk to them. They must sense babies' feeling. Therefore they are sensitive to others' gesture, body movement and voice.

Then, when girls are talking to boys, boys don't know what girls need. Always go to solve the problem without taking care girls' feeling. Girls may think boys are rude because they don't know emotion or feeling sometimes is not in consideration for solving problem. This big difference of the need is caused by big difference between two perspectives. When they lost patience, the communication would break down. Hence, the first step is to bear in mind that everyone is not the same. He or she always don't think in a way like mine.

Sprachenfähigkeit wird entweder verbessert oder verschlechtert sich

Wir wissen, daß das über 90% von Hong-Kong Bürgern chinesisch sind deren Muttersprache kantonesisch ist. Wir haben sehr kleine Wahrscheinlichkeit, Ausländer zu treffen. Wir haben nicht noch unser Englisch verbessert und auch Ausländer bitten, kantonesisches zu erlernen. Folglich wird der Beweggrund der Hong-Kong Bürger, zum von von Englisch zu erlernen, das wohl ist, sehr niedrig. Wir verursachen nicht ein englisches Klima im täglichen Leben und erlernen nicht Englisch aktiv. Unser Englisch ist sich verschlechtert zweifellos. Es ist dem Fall ziemlich ähnlich, der, nachdem ich weniger Gespräch mit meinem Taiwan Freund hatte, meine Mandarine besonders auf dem Aussprache schlechter erhält. Als wir uns wieder trafen, fand sie, daß ich nicht in der Mandarine sowie vorher sprechen kann. Es ist ziemlich frei, daß Sprachenfähigkeit entweder verbessert wird oder verschlechtert sich. (...)

Which .... is gay?

My Schedule

My schedule must be held by myself. It cannot be held by others. It is because everyone has its own schedule and they have not much time to take care your schedule. That is why I cannot depend others to take care my schedule. I am in charge of my schedule and I would fight for it, fight for my own interest.

Sorry, I have to fight for my own interest.

Patience has quota. When it is out of quota, there will be no merce.

Waiting is extravaganza to me.

Time is always running out.

The power of execution decides whether the company is alive or dead.

You should know what I mean.

Right?